In my first year of teaching, some 13 years ago, a colleague gave me a great piece of advice. He told me to leave work at work. He must have seen me schlepping my over-stuffed teacher satchel to my car each day.
At first, I thought this advice was obvious – why would I take work home? At the time, my 22-year-old self took his advice to heart. I left work at school and enjoyed my newfound free time. I threw away more student work than I graded. My lessons weren’t very effective or engaging. Even though I enjoyed life more, my students and work were suffering. Something had to give.
Teaching is perhaps one of the few jobs where you do not go to work to actually do work. The grading, lesson plans, planning, parent contact, endless paperwork can’t be completed during the school day because we’re teaching! More often than not, I arrive home from work and open my lap-top to complete tasks I did not have time to get to between my on-the-clock hours of 7:15-4:00. Still, there is never enough time.
As a more seasoned teacher, I’d like to ask that former colleague of mine how he did it – how did he manage to leave work at work? I can’t seem to completely do it. I think most teachers take work home, because really, it’s difficult not to do so. However, I have devised some stipulations for working at home, which give me some work/life balance without making me hyperventilate.
- No work Saturdays –Give yourself one weekend day where you do nothing for school. Not even answer emails (I’m still working on this one).
- Complete lesson plans during the week – My lesson plans are due Sunday evening, but I make sure I do them during the work-week so they aren’t hanging over my head all weekend.
- Work Hour Sunday – I carve out an hour (or two) on Sunday to grade papers and get materials ready for the week. I usually do this while drinking a glass of wine before dinner. It makes me feel prepared for the week instead of frazzled come Monday morning.
- No work on weeknights – I’m still working on this one, but I typically do not do work on weeknights, unless it’s preparing a handout or lesson for the next day.
- Use planning time wisely – This is one that I struggle with. I often get absorbed with meetings, conversations with teachers or student issues that arise. I also spend way too much time checking in homework and completing paperwork, which actually takes up most of my planning time. (Look for a blog about homework soon!)
What are some ways you keep your work/life balance in check?